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Musings Of The Past

My Body’s Betrayal

December 13, 2022January 30, 2023 DebiLeave a comment

When Pain is a Source of Arousal When my father abducted me right after my 9th birthday, he had already been grooming me for at least 2 years. He left me with a group of 3 men and 2 women that I think of and refer to as THEY. They were true sadists. I do… Continue reading My Body’s Betrayal

Musings Of The Past

Color Coded Feelings

November 29, 2022January 30, 2023 DebiLeave a comment

Learning how to uncomplicated emotions There was a time, in the last decade, when I was doing EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) therapy. We started with some simple drawing of my feelings, my inner picture of myself. We quickly realized that my perceptions of many feelings were seriously skewed. The therapist came up with… Continue reading Color Coded Feelings

Beating It Back

BALANCE

November 1, 2021January 20, 2023 DebiLeave a comment

When life gives you sunshine don't go chasing after the rain. I have what I think is my strangest problem ever. My time is overscheduled, all with things I desperately want to do. I work 20 hours a week, so what could congest my week that much? Just what I asked myself. First, there is… Continue reading BALANCE

Beating It Back

Graduation Part 2

October 4, 2021January 20, 2023 DebiLeave a comment

A year without therapy Well, it has been a year since I ended 14 ½ years of therapy. I worried I might fall apart. That without the support and accountability—I didn’t know whether I could stay stable on my own. The truth is, I am not on my own. I have my sister, friends, and… Continue reading Graduation Part 2

Foundations

Falling Apart

April 1, 2021January 20, 2023 DebiLeave a comment

My Journey Through Self Injuring Phone by Deborah Adams. Copywrite 2021 I met Chris when I was 16. He was a friend of a friend. I felt a connection unlike any I had ever felt before. I wanted to know him, to spend time with him, to matter to him.  Don’t confuse the way I… Continue reading Falling Apart

Musings Of The Past

THERAPY: CRUTCH OR CAST

October 13, 2020January 19, 2023 DebiLeave a comment

Deborah Adams I have spent most of my adult life in therapy. First, as a Junior in high school. Then, when my close friend was in a car accident and almost died when I was 19. I had, for lack of a better word, a nervous breakdown. I couldn’t function. Luckily for me, the owner… Continue reading THERAPY: CRUTCH OR CAST

Beating It Back

Graduation

September 15, 2020January 17, 2023 DebiLeave a comment

Today I said goodbye to Jonna, my therapist of 14 ½ years (halves are always important to me). I had four weeks of notice. Not a lot of time to wrap up all the loose ends. I thought I would be devastated. I thought I might break down and cry. Certainly, there were nights in… Continue reading Graduation

Beating It Back

Prelude to Willingness

September 15, 2020January 17, 2023 DebiLeave a comment

Prelude to Willingness (written 2018) I have been in therapy since my junior year in high school, off and on. Well, more on than off. This incarnation I have been with my therapist for over twelve years.  By far the most time I have worked with anyone. Which was great, because it allowed me to start getting… Continue reading Prelude to Willingness

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